I want to answer a question I get time and it's "How can I improve this relationship?"
Most of this means contact with a lot other than very often the relationship with the adolescents. Or it can be a working condition – contact with a university or a scary boss. The point is, what I'm going to tell you is working for all types of communication because all these relationships have one thing in common: You!
With Iceberg Principles, we always look at the truth first. We go into what we know with certainty to come on the basis and get clear views on the issue at hand. With relationships that can be Sticky Wicket. What is the truth? Who is right? Who is wrong? That's the problem here, isn't it? Everyone thinks they are right. Everyone sees a part of their perspective and desires to defend their position.
However, with the principles of icebergs, we return to Universal Truth, which is in this universe where we live everything we see is a reflection of our own beliefs and perceptions. This is the foundation of the law. Your dominant energy is reflected in your life experience.
How does this apply to your relationships? That means everything you're complaining about; everything that lies ahead of you in that regard must be within you first. It is your own opinion that is reflected back to you. That's why two men can stand next to each other and one sees the beautiful world and the others think the world is going into hell in a hand cart.
Does that mean you're only thinking about the problem? No! In this universe, your perception becomes real reality. It also means that by becoming aware of a phenomenon, you can change your life in a very real way.
The purpose of remembering is that if it is damaging you then it must be in you. It's almost what you need to speak a language to understand what's going on. If you do not speak the language it does not matter what someone is telling you – it immediately goes over your head. You might say you need to speak the language of this problem to get hurt.
This means better if you complain, for example, that your spouse is neglecting you; What is reflected is your own self-study. If you boss is not evaluating your contribution, what is mirrored is worth your own worth.
What does that mean for your relationships? That it is pointless to teach others what is happening. They are not the problem no matter how much it seems. Trying to change your mind is meaningless – it is your mind that needs to be changed. You can't change other people anyway. They ignore it and solve nothing. The only one you control is yourself. It is your own reflection that you see.
So how can you change your relationships? Stop!
Stop arguing. Stop fighting? Stop grumbling. Start being more loving.
You are made of love. It's the essence of your being. It costs you nothing to be more loving because you have more than enough love to give away.
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You have the ability to be childless. It costs you nothing to be safer. You don't have to give "air time" and "# 39 to all the nasty thoughts coming out of my head. I promise you won't discover if you keep them to yourself. Be more loving instead – and watch how Your relationships change dramatically!
If you are in a bad, truly offensive situation, something will happen and that relationship will end. It will go away somehow because you are no longer an energetic match with it. in an important relationship that is meant to be in your life, watch how the other person is suddenly more loving, grateful and respectful, children
Because – again – you are wondering about yourself, when you are more loving "more love is what you get in return. It's in a nutshell how you add some relationship.
I hope this insight helped you. If so, they
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