Self-confidence – why do people hate me?

You've met these people before, we all have, maybe you've even fallen victim to this kind of thought or singer himself for a time or two. Something doesn't work out, you didn't succeed you wanted. People you care about, leave you, or forget to make you a particular event. It could have negative feelings you get from your colleagues, the lack of answers you get from your neighbors. You go over for a presentation, your friend gets all the kids or the girls. The list goes on and on, it's endless.

Why do people hate me?

Is it because I'm black, I'm white, I'm a minor, I'm a woman, I'm short, I'm hooked, I'm poor, I'm not experienced, I'm a single parent, I'm rather I is too old, I'm too young? This list goes on and on and is endless as well.

The simple truth is, people don't hate you, it's you who hates you. I hear people say "Oh, but you don't know my circumstances." I don't have to know your circumstances though cruel, honest and indeed they can be.

As you say you get back what you give or you reap what you sow, this is all about the law of attraction. Cheerful, healthy ingredients cannot attract hatred, it is universal impossible. So the question is not, why do people hate me? But now, "why do I hate myself?"

The answer to this question does not require you to put up the couch and give a minute for a minute to your biography or look for why your mother did not love you enough. From this point on, you are over and only you are responsible for your life and how you feel about its deposition. It requires you to do something in your "work" of yourself, on your mental attitude. How you see yourself is a direct reflection of who and what will come to life.

Let's try this simple exercise. Close your eyes and try to empty your mind for a minute. Now think of someone you love very much, they mean a lot to you, remember the good times, the laughs, the hugs, the smiles, the discussions. Now try to think "I hate all this person," you want them to hurt, never want to talk or be around them again. It's really impossible, you probably want to laugh a little at the thought. These two emotions cannot occupy the same space. The heart filled with love does not have the flexibility to see.

So now you say, but these people treat me badly and I shouldn't take it. And you're right you don't have to take it. You can change your spiritual beliefs and the results that appear in your life. Start today, now, do these 3 things:

1. Get clear about what you want, who you want to be in this world, what kind of life do you want. Write it out as much as possible. Not only do I want to be rich and happy, we do everything. But what is your definition of rich and happy.

2. Make your statements about plans or confirmations. These are more or less summaries from Step 1. For example: I am now surrounded by loving caring people or Everyone is always helpful and honest. Try to start with at least 20, use them daily.

3. Take time (quiet time, time), believe in yourself, fill yourself with good thoughts, love, and kindness. As an empty vase you fill with water, when it is filled in the rim, it will overflow and water will get everything and go everywhere.

These three things will lead to fun changes. Negative people will disappear or leave your life. You will find that you spend less and less time around those who want to hurt you or reduce you. It does not matter what others are thinking because you will have enough love and kindness to give away.

So now the question is not even; Why do I hate myself? But how do I love more?


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