Social Helpdesk, Hunter and Confused Hot Button
Is your biggest stress now feeling socially helpless, fast, painful and inevitable? You do not see work or outside in any direction and feel so excited and angry as a result? How can you get out of this stressful situation?
Walk the way you walked in
Years ago, when I was tired of unhappy my first marriage, I dreamed of being stuck in the jungle. I could see out but did not go out – until I turned around and discovered that the fish farm lay on the side and the top behind me was open. All I needed was to walk out as I walked in. This awareness, remembered my dream, relieved my stress, and allowed me to begin taking steps to improve the situation. Divorce seemed to be much less stress than living with someone I no longer love.
Do you have stressful problems like not wanting to participate but do not want to hurt others' feelings? Maybe you will no longer have your old suit, or you disagree with your answers, but it's hard to say that.
Here are some tips on what's not going to be done and some tips on stress that you can use to go out of emotional clinical social situations!
Be beautiful and give their requirements. Be in the same old pattern. Go ahead and party even if you no longer use it, or worse, you think you betray yourself. So let your mother-in-law have their way in spite of how you feel inside.
Then get ready to pour in and enjoy life like a victim – again! Your stress will come out like sickness, anger or anxiety in other areas of your life, but nobody can accuse you of rocking the boat.
What to do instead
Dare to stand for yourself. Remember that taking care of your own needs is not against the other man. You deserve to take care of yourself. You can not really hurt one's feelings. If they choose to hurt themselves, it's their choice and their responsibility.
Learn to verify your own truth simply and clearly . In order for you to be social friends, "Well, I'm no longer partying." We demand such a mother-in-law: "I can thank you for your preference, but in my home, how do I do that."
Although it sounds a little bit the first time, do you dare to speak the truth When you have a deep breath and get out, you will be surprised at the feeling of relief that could wash over you. Keeping back meets your own needs and creates stress, but by setting your real position on the table means you are adapting with and for yourself. It relieves stress in a big way!
It's important for you to be healthy and balanced, but continue to be stressed by unnecessary helplessness, confusion or feelings of being socially stuck.
Tell yourself: "I'm able to make a decision and speak the truth. I can get out of this awkward condition and in a much better position." for all mys and true self. "