SPECIAL CHANGES ARE A MATTERS A clothing company establishes this advertisement by the way people should look like, women see it and want it. Men see what women want so they try to look similar to this concept of men. The quote does not mean doing something for someone or what society wants you to do, if you only do it to please people so it feels better, it's the same as masturbation. Its temporary relief. Self-destruction means to screw everything, do what you want and be happy.