Improving yourself is the most important habit that you can develop in your life. When people are told about the challenges of life from all directions, it tends to disclose the situation and their lives. Under these circumstances, people often wish they could be someone else. They do not like to take responsibility for their situation and they make it worse by wishing everything is different.
The truth is that you have to deal with your life as it is and realize that most others have to deal with almost the same things. You may find that your problems are unique and special. The truth is that they are unique, but they are similar to millions of others. Your problems are only special to you.
Even the most powerful people have a moment of sadness. Even the most beautiful women are not sure about their looks. She may be beautiful but she does not know who to trust someone sees her looks and ignores her personality. Because of her beauty, she also tends to prevent men more often because she is unmanageable. Most people do not feel too close to reaching a rare beauty. They believe that they are above them in terms of their status. She's out of the league.
The truth is that you do not really understand others and their problems. Nobody does. But most face the same challenges in life. People mainly deal with how they approach life and solution problems.
Even the safest person had his moment desperate. You do not know because you are not all the time in his presence and you do not know them. But every success faced a lot of problems in their past. He may seem safe but he is indeed likely because he conquered his problems and not because he was born confidently. I personally do not know anyone who was born confidently. After all, why most children cry soon after they are born? That's because they are afraid. People are born afraid and are safe with exercise and time. There is no other way around it.
Sometimes we tend to put other people on a stall. We look at them and see no bugs with them or their behavior. The problem is they can do the same when they look at us. They may look at us and believe that we are so perfect and have none of their problems and challenges.
We must admit we are people and people make mistakes. Every man has at least a bad habit, such as biting his nails or talking too much. The solution is to learn more about yourself and gradually improve our lives. With time and with perseverance, we will gradually improve our lives.
Listening is probably the best way to improve yourself. When you listen, you close your inner voice and become curious about another person. Next you learn to put yourself in one's shoes. Soon after, you will know what it's like to be him or her. With this process, you will learn more about them. You will notice other mistakes that you make too mistakes. Open the other person and the side to knowledge, and wisdom will open to you.
It's better not to tell others how to try to improve their own behavior and lead through examples. There is no better way to help and encourage others to change their lives than by showing your personal example. Think of yourself as a person who is growing and wants to get better. Think of yourself as an developer. Your success at this moment has nothing to do with what is possible for you. You just have to mature and go in the right direction and the results will come gradually.
Accept yourself as you are and it will be much easier to improve yourself. Have goals, do the best to achieve them and lead a goal-oriented life. Do not worry too much about others or what they might think about your behavior. Good luck!