It is unfortunate that many people get caught in insecurity, doubt and fear. They feel like they are not good enough to do what they want to achieve. They end up comparing themselves with others and looking at other people's lives from the outside to convince themselves to be in their shoes would lead to a better quality of life. It's very sad and sad how some people can underestimate their self-esteem!
Are you one of these people? Have you ever been to a party and saw someone seeing absolutely flawless and getting all the attention, just finding yourself thinking that such a person bought to have a great life? Or have you ever compared yourself and your talents with friends or collections that you seem to be doing better than you in life?
Insecure and low self esteem are usually the cause of people feeling uncomfortable in their own skin and having the desire to live the lives of others. Often, these insecurity get the best from them. Worse, though, they may necessarily lose their ability to improve or create a better life experience.
Though it gets something cliche, you're actually much better than you let yourself believe. The first step is to become aware of your personal qualities, talents and experience and then realize that each of us has an unusual way to excel on unique features. When you commit to continuous self-determination, you will ultimately lead to acknowledging and increasing your self-worth and value for and for the community.
A simple way to participate in self-esteem is to talk to a friend you trust. Find someone you know will listen to you and can also give you constructive criticism of your behaviors and attitudes. A true friend can be a wonderful ally who gives an opinion that you can use to improve yourself.
You can also take your self-esteem a step further. Make the habit of reading inspiring stories, self-training books and personal growth content. There are numerous resources both on and offline.
The last thing you want to do is see you as an insignificant person and compare yourself to those you see around you. Remember, we are all different and unique, and as such, meaningless comparison. Beware of mental health and negative suicide. Do not participate in the little voice that tries to convince you that your life would be much better if you were thinner, richer, living in another part of the world or whatever in your life. Make the most of the "you" that was delivered to you at birth. Committed to winning your self-esteem for your finer features to shine while less finer features are smooth.
Remember, it's all about loving yourself and your imperfection. Once you accept this and acknowledge that you are striving to be your best, you will begin to see improvements and begin to feel comfortable with life as it stands.