A few years ago I faced very demanding finances. The extent of my challenge was that I was unable to stress. For you in this situation you will know what I mean. I had a constant stomach tightness that often woke up to churning in response to many simple events that occurred in my daily life. This was overwhelming of my inability to breathe well, which again made me feel tired and controlled me to experience hot sweat.
The sleep became a normal nightmare. What little sleep I could get was triggered by dreams that arose from the feeling of impending judgment. Of course, it causes little and disturbing sleep fatigue during the day and is controlled because I did something I tried to do. Sometimes I was so late that I thought it's not worth it. When things get worse and mixed, I started to shake occasionally and my body felt like it had been folded down.
At this point, it became even worse when my relationship with my girlfriend was affected by stress and we agreed to participate. I took all the debt and I started thinking everything was really too much. I thought I was so deep that I could never figure out both financially and emotionally.
Then I had a good break. Someone introduced me to the world's self-esteem. Before all of this, I always spoke as a more positive thinker than negative, so I took ideas about self-esteem quite quickly. I thought about different topics on topics and read in the order that I found most useful to me. Below are four main things i had to learn to overcome my stress and start getting it done.
The first thing I had to learn was to live life in day-to-day compartments. In short, the only thing that matters anytime now. There is no need to worry about what has happened in the past. It's gone and there's nothing you can do about it. There is no need to worry about the future, it's not here yet and I realized that 80% of the things we're worried about never get past. So a lesson to learn is a living life now and worry about the past and the future.
Another thing I learned was watching the worst possible situations. My worst possible situation was that I went bankrupt. I used this to be terrible but I realized that even though I was bankrupt, I would still live, eat, drink and have a roof over my head in some way or another. I would still have the mind that can be used to create things in the future. So it was important that I realized that the worst possible situation was not that bad.
The third thing I learned was that I had to take control of my own thinking. I realized that I was constantly talking to me in a negative way and I had to get my mind to improve my situation. I realized that my negative thought was giving me instructions to fail and it was my responsibility to change this. I started to observe exactly what I was thinking and when I thought I was thinking negative, I was ready to divide this thought with positive thoughts. I learned that the thoughts that I expressed seemed to attract similar situations. By thinking positively, it seemed to automatically pull positive things into my life.
The fourth thing I learned was that I had to work out step by step plan to get what I wanted to be. This requires defining challenging targets and replacing every step needed to achieve that goal. By doing this you are constantly putting your efforts in the right place at all times. The most important thing here is to set significant goals that are set in stone, but always remember that plans never go according to plan. Therefore, you must keep track of your schedule.
The above four proofs have meant that I could turn a lot about the situation. I was very responsive to learning because my situation at that time seemed terrible and I was sick and tired of being in my position. So it was important to be receptive to new ideas and knowledge as this will affect the speed you learn. Within days, I was able to completely remove the stomach ache, hot sweat, restlessness and fatigue by applying the points made above. After looking at my mind, I could sit slowly and apply my energy step by step towards what I believed would gradually pull me out of demanding situations.
I know it works from experience. I've been there and bought it. I know that anyone who really wants to achieve something must apply the principles described above. So if you want to get out of the way, you must become receptive to learning, start managing your thoughts about your worries and thoughts, and present an action plan designed to get you where you want to be. Most importantly, I know you can do it if you want.