The personal leadership idea is very free. You see that you are yourself and not a victim of upbringing and circumstances. Current is the only place where you can be. The past is a place you can learn from as you live in the future.
It's easy to put energy into being unfamiliar with someone else. There are certainly times when worrying about someone with a hard time is a way to show caring and caring. Yet you can have a mentality based on always putting the needs and feelings of others ahead of your own.
People who usually put the welfare of others ahead of themselves tend to have not enough energy to take care of themselves. By trying to fix someone else, they try to take responsibility for what they do not control. Better accept it and focus on yourself. They can still share what their concern is, then let others handle it.
I can think of a good example. My husband practices very sporadically, his doctor has recommended, I have nagged him and shared my concern but he has not yet reached a regular schedule. For some time, I was very nervous about him and became more busy with his health or lacking him. Finally, I changed my mind: He knows how I feel and I have to leave it in his hands. Although he is still not good at using the fact that I changed my mind was very free for me. I no longer do this to me.
By developing strong personal leadership ideas, we must manage our own lives. The more we focus on growing ourselves emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually, the more effective we face in dealing with others. As a result, we feel good about ourselves and proud to have grown leadership.